A thoughtful placement service connecting families with trusted caregivers through values alignment, clear expectations, and intentional support.

Great villages aren’t just built, they’re Tended.

The Tended Way

The caregiver–child relationship is sacred, and creating aligned partnerships between families and caregivers is at the heart of what we do.

Tended thoughtfully connects families seeking trusted support with caregivers seeking meaningful, stable work — building relationships rooted in clarity, trust, and mutual respect.

Our questionnaires illuminate values, expectations, and communication styles, so every introduction begins on shared ground. Each caregiver profile is personally reviewed before introductions are made. Our Fair-Commitment Contract offers a clear framework from day one, helping families and caregivers begin working together with shared expectations and confidence. And when helpful, Tended also offers guidance to support strong communication and long-term alignment between families and caregivers, helping relationships grow with intention.

Tended is a curated placement service shaped by real referrals, thoughtful reviews, and conscious communication — building the kind of support families can rely on.

How it Works

Getting started should feel simple, supported, and straightforward.

1. Share your profile — Complete a short questionnaire to help us understand your values, preferences, and communication style.

2. We look for alignment — We personally review every profile and identify matches rooted in values and long-term compatibility.

3. Receive curated matches — Families receive 1–3 caregiver bios; caregivers also receive family bios.

4. Prepare & connect — Both families and caregivers receive a thoughtful interview preparation guide to help conversations begin clearly and confidently.

5. Start strong — Use our Fair-Commitment Contract and structured guidance to begin the relationship with clarity and confidence.

Simple. Human. Intentional.

Why Families Choose Tended

Families come to Tended when they’re looking for more than a list of candidates.

Every introduction is shaped through a thoughtful review of values, expectations, and communication style, so relationships begin on shared ground from the very first conversation. Tended supports families in building caregiver partnerships designed to last — with clarity, structure, and communication support along the way.

Because anyone involved in helping raise our children should be respected, trusted, and truly supported — and great relationships take effort, care, and tending.

Apply to join a growing community of families and caregivers redefining what conscious care looks like.

We are currently welcoming a small number of families as part of Tended’s early placement pilot.