TENDED — TERMS OF SERVICE
Effective Date: May 2026
Last Updated: May 2026
These Terms of Service (“Terms”) govern the use of services provided by Tended LLC (“Tended,” “we,” “our,” or “us”).
By accessing the Tended website, submitting a questionnaire, paying an application fee, requesting or accepting introductions, participating in interviews or paid trials, or engaging in any Tended-facilitated matching process, you agree to be bound by these Terms.
These Terms apply to both Families and Caregivers unless otherwise specified.
If you do not agree to these Terms, you may not use Tended services.
1. OVERVIEW OF SERVICES
Tended provides:
Values-based caregiver and family introductions
Personalized matching support
Interview preparation and onboarding guidance
Communication coaching and mediation support
Contract templates and educational resources
Reference coordination and placement support
Optional background check coordination through third-party providers
Ongoing relationship guidance, where applicable
Tended is an introduction and placement support service only.
Tended does not employ caregivers, supervise caregiving work, direct household operations, guarantee compatibility, or guarantee employment outcomes.
All hiring, employment, payroll, supervision, scheduling, workplace safety, tax, insurance, and legal compliance responsibilities remain solely between Families and Caregivers.
2. DEFINITIONS
“Family”
An individual, parent, guardian, or household seeking childcare or family support services.
“Caregiver”
A nanny, newborn care specialist, doula, family assistant, house manager, or other caregiving professional seeking opportunities through Tended.
“Introduction”
Any instance in which Tended shares information, profiles, resumes, references, contact details, identifying information, or facilitates communication between a Family and Caregiver.
“Placement”
A Placement occurs when a Family hires, engages, retains, books, schedules, trials, employs, or begins an ongoing working relationship with a Caregiver introduced by Tended, whether full-time, part-time, temporary, trial-to-hire, live-in, live-out, occasional, recurring, as a family assistant, for household management, or otherwise.
3. APPLICATION FEES
Families
Families pay a $200 non-refundable Family Application Fee to begin the Tended review and matching process.
This fee:
Covers intake review, consultation time, matching preparation, and administrative support
Is credited toward the final placement fee if a successful placement occurs
Does not guarantee introductions, interviews, trials, or placement
Caregivers
Caregivers pay a $25 non-refundable application fee to be considered for placement opportunities through Tended, unless waived by Tended.
This fee helps support:
Application review
Interview time
Profile creation
Matching coordination
Administrative support
Submission of an application does not guarantee interviews, introductions, or placement opportunities.
Tended may waive caregiver fees in cases of financial hardship at its discretion.
4. PLACEMENT FEES & PAYMENT TERMS
Placement Fee
Tended charges a placement fee for successful caregiver placements.
Unless otherwise agreed in writing, Tended’s placement fee is 10% of the Caregiver’s projected first-year gross wages, calculated from the agreed hourly rate and regular weekly schedule. A minimum placement fee applies.
Tended reserves the right to modify pricing for future placements.
When the Placement Fee Becomes Owed
The placement fee becomes owed when a Family and Caregiver introduced by Tended mutually agree to move forward with an ongoing role, whether verbally, by email, by text message, through scheduling, or through a written agreement.
The final placement fee is determined once both sides agree to move forward and confirm the role’s hourly rate and regular weekly schedule.
The placement fee becomes owed regardless of the Caregiver’s official start date.
Payment Terms
Families must sign the Placement Agreement and submit payment in full within 3 business days of mutually agreeing to move forward with a Tended-introduced Caregiver and before the Caregiver’s official first working day, unless otherwise agreed in writing by Tended.
Payments must be made through Stripe unless otherwise approved in writing.
Failure to pay constitutes a material breach of these Terms.
Late Payments
Unpaid balances accrue interest at 3% per month.
Families are responsible for any collection costs, legal fees, arbitration costs, or enforcement expenses associated with unpaid balances.
Refund Policy
Application fees and placement fees are non-refundable.
Tended may offer replacement support as outlined below, but does not provide refunds under any circumstances.
5. REPLACEMENT SUPPORT
If a placement ends within the first 30 calendar days of employment, Tended will provide replacement support for the same role, subject to availability and alignment.
Replacement support may include up to 1–2 additional caregiver introductions, at Tended’s discretion.
Replacement support:
Applies only once per paid placement
Applies only to the same role, schedule, location, compensation range, and responsibilities originally agreed upon
Is not a refund
Is not a credit
Is not a guarantee of a successful future placement
Is subject to caregiver availability and continued alignment with Tended’s placement process
Replacement support is void if the Family:
Violates these Terms
Circumvents or attempts to circumvent Tended
Materially changes the role, schedule, location, compensation, or responsibilities after the placement is accepted
Materially breaches agreements with the Caregiver
Underpays, mistreats, or fails to pay the Caregiver on time
Provides inaccurate or misleading job details
Fails to comply with applicable employment laws
Fails to communicate professionally or respectfully
Fails to provide timely interview, trial, or placement feedback requested by Tended
Replacement introductions are not guaranteed placements.
6. ANTI-CIRCUMVENTION
Families and Caregivers agree not to circumvent Tended.
For 12 months following any Introduction, Families may not directly or indirectly hire, employ, trial, engage, retain, refer, contract with, schedule, book, or otherwise work with any Caregiver introduced by Tended outside the Tended placement process without payment of the applicable placement fee.
Likewise, Caregivers may not accept employment, trial work, or paid work directly with a Family introduced through Tended outside the Tended placement process.
Families may not share caregiver profiles, resumes, references, contact information, or identifying details with third parties without written consent from Tended.
Any direct or indirect engagement between the introduced parties within 12 months of the Introduction is considered a Tended Placement and remains subject to Tended fees, regardless of whether the original placement proceeds.
Tended may share contact information between Families and Caregivers for scheduling, interview, trial, and placement-related logistics. Sharing contact information does not waive Tended’s placement rights or anti-circumvention protections.
7. OPTIONAL PAID TRIALS
Families may choose to schedule a paid trial before making a final hiring decision.
Trial work:
Must be paid directly to the Caregiver
Must be compensated at the agreed hourly rate
Does not establish employment by Tended
Tended recommends paid trials between 1 and 5 working days.
Extended trials beyond 5 working days may be treated as a Placement at Tended’s discretion.
Tended is not responsible for payroll, supervision, taxes, scheduling, transportation, household instructions, or trial-related disputes.
8. REFERENCES & BACKGROUND CHECKS
Tended may review reference information provided by Caregivers and may conduct preliminary reference conversations at its discretion.
Families remain responsible for conducting any additional reference checks, interviews, background checks, or diligence they deem appropriate prior to hire.
Tended does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of references provided by Caregivers or third parties.
Background checks may be coordinated through third-party providers upon request or as part of the placement process.
Unless otherwise stated in writing, any background check fees are the responsibility of the Family.
For California placements, Tended may guide Families and Caregivers through TrustLine registration, TrustLine verification, or another applicable screening process. Tended does not guarantee TrustLine approval, background check results, caregiver eligibility, or suitability.
Tended:
Is not the reporting agency
Does not independently verify report accuracy
Does not guarantee eligibility or suitability
Is not liable for errors, omissions, delays, or reporting inaccuracies
Caregivers must consent before any background check is initiated.
9. CAREGIVER RESPONSIBILITIES
Caregivers acknowledge and agree that:
They are not employees of Tended
They determine their own rates, schedules, and availability
They are responsible for taxes and legal compliance
They will communicate professionally and honestly
They will provide truthful application information
They will notify Tended immediately if contacted directly by a Tended-introduced Family regarding employment, trial work, scheduling, or paid work
They will not circumvent Tended
10. FAMILY RESPONSIBILITIES
Families agree to:
Pay caregivers legally, ethically, and on time
Provide a safe and respectful working environment
Follow applicable employment laws
Communicate professionally
Provide accurate job details
Notify Tended of trial dates, offers, accepted offers, and start dates
Complete the requested post-interview or post-trial feedback within 24 hours
Keep caregiver communication, scheduling, trials, references, and next steps coordinated through Tended unless otherwise agreed in writing
Families are solely responsible for compliance with all applicable household employment laws, including payroll taxes, overtime, paid sick leave, workers’ compensation, wage/hour requirements, insurance, and workplace safety obligations.
11. CONFIDENTIALITY
Families and Caregivers agree to keep private any sensitive personal, household, financial, medical, childcare, employment, or relationship information learned through the Tended process.
Tended likewise agrees to handle personal information with reasonable care and discretion.
12. COMMUNICATION POLICY
Placement-related communication with Tended should occur primarily via email unless otherwise agreed.
Tended may provide optional coaching, mediation, onboarding support, or support calls at its discretion.
Response times are not guaranteed.
13. LIMITATION OF LIABILITY
To the fullest extent permitted by law, Tended is not liable for:
Caregiver performance
Family conduct
Compatibility outcomes
Injuries
Property damage
Theft
Misconduct
Employment disputes
Payroll or tax compliance
Background check inaccuracies
Third-party actions
Tended’s maximum liability shall not exceed the total amount of fees paid directly to Tended by the Family.
14. DISPUTE RESOLUTION
Step 1 — Mediation
Parties agree to attempt good-faith mediation before pursuing formal legal action.
Step 2 — Binding Arbitration
If mediation is unsuccessful, disputes shall be resolved through binding arbitration in Los Angeles County, California.
Parties waive the right to trial by jury or participation in class action claims.
15. GOVERNING LAW
These Terms are governed by the laws of the State of California.
16. ACCEPTANCE OF TERMS
By:
Submitting a questionnaire
Paying an application fee
Requesting introductions
Participating in interviews or paid trials
Hiring, trialing, engaging, or otherwise working with a Tended-introduced Caregiver
Continuing communication through the Tended process
You acknowledge that you have read, understood, and agreed to these Terms.
CONTACT
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