Practical guidance.
A more thoughtful beginning.
Navigate nanny interviews and paid trials with clearer questions, a sense of what to notice, and space to make a considered decision.
The Tended Guides
Before the interview
A Thoughtful
Nanny Interview
Know what to ask—and what to listen for. Prepare a clear role, explore a nanny’s experience through real examples, and leave the conversation knowing what feels aligned and what needs more understanding.
Inside the guide
- Preparation prompts to clarify the role and your family’s priorities.
- A suggested interview flow, from introductions to next steps.
- Six core questions with guidance on what to listen for.
- Additional questions tailored to your child, family, and position.
- Reflection prompts to help you consider the conversation before deciding.
Before the paid trial
A Successful
Nanny Trial
Make room to experience working together. Plan a realistic paid trial, know what to observe, and communicate clearly throughout the day—so both you and the nanny can better understand whether to move forward.
Inside the guide
- Preparation guidance covering trial arrangements, responsibilities, and payment.
- A flexible flow for welcoming the nanny and moving through the day.
- Six areas to observe, including connection, judgment, and communication.
- Guidance for offering feedback and inviting the nanny’s perspective.
- Reflection prompts and possible next steps after the trial.
Prefer a little more
personal guidance?
For families seeking support throughout the search, Tended offers personal guidance through defining the role, meeting candidates, hiring, and beginning the working relationship.
Explore how Tended works