Know what to notice. Experience working together.
Created by Tended founder Natalia Mottau, drawing on her hands-on work guiding families through nanny searches, paid trials, and the beginning of the working relationship.
Informed by the approach behind Tended Fit Verification™, this guide helps you look beyond first impressions to notice care, judgment, communication, and how someone responds to your family’s everyday rhythms.
Inside the guide
• Prepare a clear, realistic paid trial
• Follow a flexible plan for the day
• Observe six areas, from connection to judgment and communication
• Offer guidance and make room for the nanny’s perspective
• Reflect on the experience and choose your next step
6-page PDF · Digital download
Know what to notice. Experience working together.
Created by Tended founder Natalia Mottau, drawing on her hands-on work guiding families through nanny searches, paid trials, and the beginning of the working relationship.
Informed by the approach behind Tended Fit Verification™, this guide helps you look beyond first impressions to notice care, judgment, communication, and how someone responds to your family’s everyday rhythms.
Inside the guide
• Prepare a clear, realistic paid trial
• Follow a flexible plan for the day
• Observe six areas, from connection to judgment and communication
• Offer guidance and make room for the nanny’s perspective
• Reflect on the experience and choose your next step
6-page PDF · Digital download